Tuesday, June 1, 2010

~Myths and Facts of Orgasm~

It definitely took scientists and long years of research to discovered G-spot. LOL!

Freud describe two types of female orgasm. One is arising from the erogenous zone is vagina called the clitoris, and the other G-spot, through direct penetration during sexual intercourse or stimulation,

Myths and mystery surrounds female orgasm, which can lead to additional issues between couples if left unexplained or debunked.

MYTH : An orgasm is always on earth-moving experience and there is something wrong is a women is unable to have one.

FACT: Some women have orgasm but don't know it. Others may not experience orgasm by the way feeling of a contraction of the pelvic floor muscle. They do however reach a peak of arousal either which they feel relaxed and contented, the same feeling other women experience after orgasm. By contrast, women who get very aroused and do not experience orgasm will sometimes feel nervous or edgy or even an aching discomfort in their pelvis.


MYTH: 'Normal' women reach orgasm through intercourse.

FACT: Only about third of women experience orgasm regularly during intercourse. A third can reach orgasm with intercourse but need extra stimulation. A third never achieve orgasm during intercourse but can manual or oral stimulation. Having orgasms by means other than intercourse is normal variation of female sexuality. In the past, people thought that 'mature' women had their orgasms with intercourse. However, laboratory studies in 1960's showed that an orgasm is an orgasm no matter which way you obtain it. How a woman reaches an orgasm had nothing to do with her mental health or emotional maturity.


MTYH: Inability to reach orgasm, or anorgasmia means a woman is frigid or that there is something wrong with her or her relationship.

FACT: Women who were able to have orgasm in the past but can no longer do so may be suffering from a medical problem or side effect from medication. Women who have never had an orgasm may never have learned what type and duration of the stimulation they need.


MYTH: If a woman cannot reach orgasm, then her partner is not skillful lover

FACT: While there are many ways a loving partner can help a woman reach orgasm, in the end, a womanis responsible for hers own sexual pleasure. That does not mean her partner should not be involved. Communication between partners is very important. It is up to the woman to inform her partner her likes and dislike in their love making.


MYTH: A woman has to have an orgasm in order to enjoy sex. This myth seems to be more common among men and other women.

FACT: Many women enjoy the closeness and the physical intimacy of sex and are satisfied even if they do not, or do not always, have an orgasm.



2 comments:

  1. woots.. very informative... too bad i not yet get married XD

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  2. then use these information when you get married in the future! Wish you have an awesome sex in the future! LOL!

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